Daily Prompt, Eight

I disagree with a lot of public figures but I’m just going to talk about one that’s got on my nerves recently since I found some of his videos on YouTube.

This is a very long rant! So sorry about this! 😅

Andrew Tate, anyone who tells me I can’t or shouldn’t want to do something because of my gender and I’m broken if I don’t want those things, which he has actually said, can go fxck themselves as far as I’m concerned.

I also watched a video of him where his logic was all over the place. He basically tried to defend his view that women are bad drivers and someone pointed out to him that statistically that wasn’t true then he didn’t seem to understand that his own experience wasn’t facts? And still tried to defend himself.

If someone gives you facts, either research your own facts to try and prove them wrong but don’t just go, well I’m going to believe my own opinion, no matter what! It makes you come across as not only sexist due to his opinion he wouldn’t change and not that clever either. Like the way he speaks sometimes he sounds smart but how on earth can you argue your own personal experience, over facts? That’s not logical at all!

Also he goes against his own again logic, because with what he saying because of our genders we want different things and we think differently, since we think differently then how do you Andrew Tate, a man, know or understand what we are thinking? Or what the majority of women, around 3.905 billion, of us are thinking?

What’s my own logic on this? All genders should both be treated like we’re humans and can think for ourselves and not have someone tell us how we should be.

Me personally? As a women I do go against the stereotypes (I don’t wear make up, I am not interested in fashion and I’m not interested in a partner either, maybe that makes me selfish but I would rather focus on myself, finding myself a career I enjoy and travelling) so I suppose that’s why it rubs me the wrong way so much when someone tells me you should be like this.

Like some stuff makes sense, in how we’re built, usually the guy is the physical strongest so they’re expected to do more of the physical lifting but just because they’re more able but that shouldn’t stop a women from just sitting back and expecting the man to do it or doing it herself or helping, like they have every right to decide for themselves whether to step into a fight or a heavier physical role.

Andrew Tate sometimes brings up what used to happen in the cavemen days, but his forgetting in families while in the past men were the first line of defence but the women were the second line of defence for the child.

This has been proven up until now a days with real stories of mothers performing feats of strength and bravery to protect their child, so for him to act like it’s just the man’s job to protect and behave like we can’t also that is insulting as hell.

Yes we’re not as strong or as fast but we can still put up a fight, especially if our loved ones are in danger, those stories of beware of mothers protecting their children, didn’t come from thin air and don’t only apply to mother bears.

Though my main thought, whatever ever we do, it’s our own choice. No one should tell us how to behave because of our gender. And too any guys reading, I’m not saying opinions shouldn’t be listened too, just because your guys, I’m saying you shouldn’t expect her to do something just because she is a women and visa versa ladies!

Though to guys specifically, if you want us to do something and it might be taken in the wrong way or talk about what you want out of a relationship or whatever it is specifically, discuss it first instead of assuming!

Don’t be an Andrew Tate who assumes he knows what we want!